Friday, March 6, 2009

Weebles Wobbles and Failing Forward

Are you a child of the 70's like me?? Did you ever play with Weebles?? We called them "Weeble Wobbles" Remember the slogan from tv?? "Weebles wobble but they don't fall down"?


Wikipedia defines Weebles as children's roly-poly toys shaped like eggs with a weight at the fat, or bottom end, they wobble when pushed, but never fall completely over. How funny is that??? I feel like a Weeble Wobble...roly-poly and weighted at my fat end! I wobble when pushed but NEVER fall completely over!! Mind you, I belive I have kissed the earth on a few of those wobbles, but never stayed down!

One of my all time fav authors, Dr. John C. Maxwell recently wrote an article entitled "Failing Forward" that really struck a chord with me.


He told how Vincent Van Gogh failed as an art dealer, flunked his entrance exam to theology school, and was fired by the church. He also explained that Albert Einstein was expelled from school and even failed his college entrance exam!!! I couldn't believe it when I read that Michael Jordan was cut from his sophomore basketball team!! WOW! Some would say these guys were FAILURES!! Thank the Lord their stories didn't end there.....And neither does mine!!!! In a failing economy I was recently layed off from my job. (I definitely wobbled then!) But I can't let that become who I am! Maxwell goes on to say that "failure didn't stop Vincent Van Gogh from painting, Albert Einstein from theorizing, or Michael Jordan from playing basketball, but it has paralyzed and prevented countless others from reaching their potential." I will not be paralyzed by my latest encounter!!! Will you??? What has happened in your life lately that has made you feel like a failure?? Made you feel like you are wobbling? Like your little weeble self might not wobble back upright? Will you let this event define "who" you are??? NOT ME!!! Maxwell goes on to say: "In the face of adversity, shortcomings, and rejection, they (achievers)hold onto self-believe and refuse to see themselves as failures."



Maxwell gives seven principles for "Failing Forward"

Reject Rejection
I will not base my self-worth on my performance. I will maintain a healthy self-image.(ooops...does that mean no more roly-poly/fat end jokes??) I will learn from my mistakes!


Don't Point Fingers
If I blame and point fingers at others I become a victim!! I will take personal responsibility for my decisions!! Cuz, GUURL!! I am no one's victim!!!


See Failure as Temporary
I am not permanently stuck in the current failure! It is TEMPORARY!!
I will not wallow in failure, I WILL look forward to success. Maxwells words: "By putting mistakes into perspective, achievers are able to see failure as a momentary event, not a symptom of a lifelong epidemic." Now that's just good....

Set Realistic Expectations
Unrealistic goals doom people to failure...... nuff said...chew on that for a minute!

Focus on Strengths
Don't invest time on trying to change your flaws while not spending time investing in your strengths. I loveeeee how Maxwell sums this up: "You're built to give your talents to the world; be diligent about finding expressions for them in your career."


Vary Approaches to Achievement

"In the Psychology of Achievement, Brian Tracy writes about four millionaires who made their fortunes by age 35. On average, these achievers were involved in 17 businesses before finding the one that took them to the top. They kept trying and changing until they found something that worked."

Bounce Back
I will have a short memory when it comes to my failures!! I will not let the memories of my mistakes eat away at my self confidence!! I will quickly forget the negative emotions of setbacks and press forward resiliently. I will remember that the past can not be altered but I can learn from it!!



Maxwell sums up his article with this:

"I believe it's nearly impossible for any person to believe he or she is a failure and move forward at the same time. For those who have been downsized, let go, or bankrupted, the temptation may be to internalize failure. My hope is that anyone who has suffered setbacks recently will be able to separate life's unfortunate events from their self-worth. Failure, like death and taxes, will happen. Your response to failure holds the key to your future."

Wow! Has he been readin' my mail, or what!?? Couldn't have come at a better time!!
Just remember if we are like those little Weebles and just keep bouncing back, with good attitudes and belief in ourselves we too can wobble back upright!!!






You can read the full article at Giantimpact.com or Maxwell has a book entitled "Failing Forward" also available.

9 comments:

Janene said...

Hello my Weeble Friend!
I am glad to hear that you are back to posting and with that you are back with a great attitude!
Weeble all you want girl, but never fall down!

Kristina P. said...

I think that this is such a great post! I agree with everything you said.

Diane @ Four Paws and Co said...

Hi Tracey, Thank you for dropping by for a visit & leaving your sweet comment. You were so cute when you said all I was missing was a doxie! I giggled, because I walk my DIL's lab and wire-haired DOXIE twice a day, so in a way I almost have one! I love your blog & I'll be back! ☺ Diane

bec4 said...

I still can sing the Weeble wobble song to the right tune. What great words of wisdom and so applicable to so many in this trying time. I am going to copy them and discuss them with the family--thanks for sharing. Great thrifty finds too--aren't thrift stores a plethora of amazing projects waiting to happen?

Sami... said...

Hey lady!
I'm lovin' what you said...I'm going to share that with so many people, it applies to life in so many ways.
You're awesome...and such a positive light!

Lora said...

What a fun blog you have! I'm visiting you from SITS, and I'm glad I found you :)

GREAT post. Things to remember...

Talk-n-tidbits said...

Thank you for your blog, it was just what I needed. How did you know I needed some encouragement today!!! Thanks so much! Judi

Lula! said...

Of course I am a child of the 70's! And of course I loved Weebles. And this post...brilliant, Tracey. So encouraging...

MFull said...

I am blessed to have a beautiful 3 year old girl...she has the 2000 version of the Weeble Wobbbles. They are still fun!!

Tracey
You are such an inspiration to so many people. As long as I have known you I can always count on you having the right thing to say even if you think you don't.
You are beautiful and if you want to come over and play with the weeble wobbles ...please do! I know Averi would love it.

BTW....woodlands garage sale 3/28!!